He treated his youth as an infinite well, pouring his days into labor and his nights into exhausted sleep, always pushing Elena’s hand away when she reached for him to dance. He thought he was being responsible; he didn't realize he was being hollow.
"The work will be there when you are old and your back is bent," Andrei said, gripping the boy’s wrist with surprising strength. "But the fire in a woman’s eyes? That goes out if you don't tend to it. I spent my youth building a cage for a bird that had already flown. Don't wait until you're my age to realize that the only thing you take to the grave is the warmth you gave away."
"Not yet, Elena," he would say when she spoke of marriage. "First, I must finish the new barn. First, I must save enough for the winter cattle. We have time. We are young."