If you are tired of lack of effort and want to walk away clearly:
It forces a decision. If they don't help plan, they aren't looking for the same thing you are—so you can "bless and release". 💡 Sabrina’s Core Texting Rules The Sabrina Zohar Show - Apple Podcasts
Sabrina Zohar is a dating coach and host of (formerly "Do The Work") who specializes in navigating modern relationships, anxious attachment styles, and "no-BS" communication. Her "style" focuses on directness, intentionality, and avoiding the "pen pal" trap. 📱 Texting Scripts by Scenario sabrina stylez
"Hey, I’ve really enjoyed getting to know you, but I’m feeling that things have been a bit inconsistent lately. Am I reading that right?"
"While I’ve enjoyed our connection, I’m very intentional with my dating and don’t want to continue spending my energy on someone who doesn't reciprocate that. I truly wish you all the best." If you are tired of lack of effort
It sets a firm boundary and protects your energy without leaving room for waffling. To Move from Texting to a Date
It uses "curiosity over anxiety" by asking for their perspective instead of making an assumption. To End Things (The "Bless and Release") I truly wish you all the best
If you need to draft a text in Sabrina’s signature style, use these scripts based on your specific situation: To Address Inconsistency