Focusing on the "why" and developing godly traits.
Tripp identifies different types of communication needed for different situations: Validating and building up the child. Correction: Addressing specific wrongdoings. Rebuke: A firm warning against a dangerous path. Entreaty: Appealing to the child’s conscience and soul. 5. Stages of Development The book breaks down shepherding goals by age: Shepherding a Child's Heart by Tedd Trip
Focusing on the "what" of obedience and honor. Focusing on the "why" and developing godly traits